Marypause50 ~10 years later still a blog about gardens, simplicity, friendships, gratitude, health,

Gratitude Given in Advance vs Resolutions

 

Happy New Year to you all! I began my blog journey eleven years ago with a New Year’s blog so this is always a special day for me to write & reflect. What is it about the not-so-simple turning of the calendar that makes us reflect & urges us to be grateful for another year? I, personally, am so glad we have that demarcation in 'time’ for quiet thought and resulting hope for the upcoming year.

        So I am always one to put aside a resolution and try something new. In my mind I think it may be easier than 365 days of that certain deprivation or something we look to attain in that coming year. The reality is that what I tend to choose is essentially harder than a resolution. Let me explain this year’s reflection on the matter.

        I’d first like to say thank you to some of the most thought provoking authors/speakers who have had a positive influence with helping me to move myself, my spirit forward in 2022. They are Mike Dooley, Sonia Choquette, Lorna Byrne & Rhonda Byrne. They all have contributed to a better understanding for me of the universe, my angels & guides & my life in general. So they are the reason I chose this year’s New Year’s topic.

                     Gratitude Given in Advance

Four words ~ Sounds simple? Well, I do practice gratitudes. That is to say that every day I am grateful for friends & family, for a lovely home & job. At the end of the day these are ‘easy’ to remember. Mike Dooley emphasizes ‘Thoughts Become Things’ and that is a cornerstone for me. What I have found is that the imagination it takes to be thankful for something that has not yet occurred is way more difficult for me but I know so powerful if I can finally learn to be consistent with those thoughts. So for this morning of New Year’s Day I will keep it simple and say that I am grateful for the successful dinner meal that I served to family & the improved breathing I have been able to do (since I have a cold). I want to emphasize to myself that I am grateful for the freedom & imagination I have in abundance that it will take to successfully begin & be consistent with this journey today, January 1, 2023! So much better than a resolution! Happy New Year!

Weed or Flower or Weed??...

         You have to love springtime, especially you gardeners out there. The birds are busy. The flowers are popping. The weeds are well just being weeds. They are everywhere you look. You may spend time weeding a bed and you turn around & there’s another & another. Well you get the idea.

        So when is a weed not a weed but a flower or a flower not a flower but a weed? Well the good news is you don’t need to read gardening book after book to find out. It really just depends on you & your very own, unique perspective on your garden. For me, right now this very day – wild strawberry is a weed. It is so pervasive this spring I want to scream! The violets I have in my beds are blooming so pretty right now, however the ones that have crept into the grass, well those very same are weeds to me – this year. (I might, however, tell a friend or stranger that I have ‘naturalized’ said violets into my lawn!) Is that crazy? Well, weeds will do that to you. We devote so many hours in the spring trying to eradicate and control the uncontrollable.

Three colors of Lamium & Forget-me-knots
Beautiful weed?

I am fighting the losing battle with a weeding tool my Bestie recommended – a Japanese sickle sharp-edged blade garden handheld weeding hoe. (see pic) It’s a mouthful but it’s a game-changer as far as time spent, effort made & success rate. Crazy again? Well weeds and their flower counterpart will do that. I plan to win this year’s battle with this handy tool this year. When I walk around showing off this year’s efforts, I know my friends only see the gorgeous perennials I love so much. When I visit their gardens I only notice the beauty in their beds also. That is the sanity that replaces my crazy.

So I will consider my efforts good exercise, excellent therapy and a perspective shifter. At this very moment I have a framed photo of the above dandelion in its soft, lovely seed form on my mantel. The weed has become a flower or a work of art & definitely a perspective shifter. Why be crazy after all? Life & spring are way too short.

Slow Cooker Turkey Chili with Root Vegetables

    On these cold winter days, nothing beats a slow cooking pot of chili for the smells & then the eating!! I have assembled the sweet end of the root vegetable family - garlic, sweet onion, sweet potato & parsnips - into this delicious chili. Of course, adding more heat with hot sauce or more hot peppers is always an option as is dialing the heat back with diced tomatoes sans the chilies and mild chili seasoning. The warmth of the cinnamon is my favorite spice here and you could even add a pinch of ground cloves or nutmeg if you please. It's easy to make over & over all winter & put your own twist on it. I serve with shredded sharp cheese on top but this is completely optional. I also serve with the best cornbread out of a box - Trader Joe's Cornbread Mix!!!! (see picture).

Easy Ingredients & short prep time!
  

Slow Cooker Turkey Chili with Root Veggies

2 packages ground turkey approx 40 oz.

One 28-oz. can tomato sauce

Two 10-oz. cans Rotel diced tomatoes with green chilies

6 cloves garlic, rough chopped

1 large sweet onion - chopped into chunky pieces

1 large sweet potato -diced into 1/4"-1/2" cubes

2 medium parsnips -diced into 1/4" slices/pieces

1 chili seasoning packet (pick your heat & sodium level)

1 tsp. salt

1 tablespoon sugar

1/4 tsp cinnamon

1-2 tsp. tomato paste

3/4 cup water

In your slow cooker empty cans of sauce, tomatoes, paste, prepped root veggies, salt, sugar, cinnamon, chili packet, water. Stir to mix & put on high. Add browned turkey (in tiny pieces - halfway thru cooking time). High 3-4 hours - Low 6-8 hours. Tip #1: Adding the turkey later keeps it from disappearing in your recipe which ground turkey tends to do. Tip #2 - Cook until the sweet potatoes are tender but not mushy. Enjoy every mouth-warming spoonful!!

Lemons to Lemonade ~ From Sour to Joyful!

    Happy New Year 2022! This is a milestone blog for me in many ways. It is the ten year anniversary of my first blog post! I had just turned 50 and had being dreaming of writing a blog for some time. So now I just turned 60 & still love many of the same things shared over this past decade but also have new interests and insights to share with you as we all continue to learn & grow together...

    This title I am sure resonates with many of you seeing that this past year & three-quarters has given us a common denominator. Face it our lives have changed in many ways. I'd like to share now with you -seeing that New Year's is always a fine place to start new ideas - some lemons to lemonade, sour to joyful ideas from my past yearly-plus Renaissance of a life.

Lemon #1 - Covid Confinement - So even though my work schedule shifted & I had a bit more time on my hands, I stopped blogging (lost my muse?), spent less time in my garden (more on why below) - both of which had continuously brought me joy. So a simple zoom call among friends had posed a challenge to try something new (thanks again DS). And then an exciting idea came to me. Creative outlets are so important for all of us & for me I knew photography might be the answer. I had bought a really good camera in 2018 and thought I needed to get inspired. I googled a landscape photographer who posted YouTube video tips. British photographer, Nigel Danson, became a wonderful Instagram creative to follow. I love landscapes but even more so my garden birds & flowers became my willing subjects. (and a bit of wildlife thrown in). Once I bought a telephoto lens I was set! I loved the hours outdoors and my lemons became lemonade and sour became joyful with each picture. (some of which I have posted with this blog) Lemonade #1: Discover or rediscover some creative interests!!



Lemon #2 - Health Issues - I had temporary health issues last spring & summer that left me unable to do as much in the garden as I would have liked. (let's just say there will be plenty of weeds to vigorously attack this spring!) The Garden Club I belong to suspended meetings and I felt overall gardening uninspired, so unlike me. But a wonderful thing happened last summer - we received sufficient rain so watering was not an issue - yay! And since I did not plant a plethora of annuals which I like to do, I let all the many, many years of perennial cultivation take over and be my joy. The hard work paid off in time spent years ago and it was joyful for me in so many ways & a glass of lemonade was just the right beverage to toast my perennial show. Lemonade #2: Plant Perennials!!
Lemon #3 - Turning 60 - I never felt turning a certain age defined me in any significant way over the years and when I hit this milestone, I felt even less so. When I read my above own words I can see that forever exploring different ways to bring the joy into your life will always be the path for me. However winding a path it may be, being joyful & full of lemonade is the way I want to be all along the way no matter my age!! Lemonade #3: No age can stop you from exploring & discovering new things - just take a leap & that net will appear!!

My Spring Photo Gallery 2020

    We've had an unusual gardening spring this year in my neck of the woods. There were two unusually late frosts that effected some tree leaf outs & my ever blooming hydrangea. Regardless, nature recovers & moves right along! I thought I would share some photos from my garden; I have a camera now that draws me into the garden & says, "snap that - hurry!" Enjoy!
Bleeding Heart - still blooming strong!

Lungwort - Early spring must have!

Forget-me-Knots - spread the seeds after they finish blooming.

Hellebore - Lenten Rose - earliest bloom in my garden

Love a Lilac!

Lupine I grew from a friend's seeds! (4th year)

Amsonia - texture for days!


Baptisia - 'Twilite Prairie Blues'

Baptisia - Blue False Indigo - On my top 3 list!

Baptisia - 'Solar Flare Prairie Blues'

Mountain Laurel - State flower of PA

Rhododendron - A Pennsylvania staple

Exquisite azalea - plant those shrubs!

Columbine - spread those seeds when finished blooming!

Salvia 'May Night'-peaking now but blooms thru Nov!

Heuchera - 'Coral Bells'

Spiderwort - just starting to bloom!

Fragrant peony!

Peony - not as fragrant but vintage and fabulous!

Spring Must Go On ~ Blooms, Birds & Butterflies

      So here we are into our multiple week journey of staying-in-place. It is amazing that no matter how restricted we are for the greater good, nature still goes on & we are home to enjoy it!! When we go for our walks or just look out the window - spring is still happening gardening, nature loving readers! No virus or border restrictions will stop spring from going on right before our eyes..
        One of the most exciting spring happenings for me is the return of the Ruby-Throated Hummingbirds. Passing over borders & state lines, these fearless migrators can travel up to 23 miles in a single day! You know adversity is there to meet them on this journey and yet these tiny flying jewels soldier on & on. I know we all can too!! What a testament to determination. Below is the link to a migration map so you can follow their journey to you. Remember welcome them with a clean feeder with a mixture of 1 part sugar to 4 parts water. Extra can be stored in the fridge for a couple of weeks. Remember, no red dye needed. And to keep them here all summer perennial plantings like bee balm, trumpet flower, honeysuckle & coral bells are perfect . Any red annual flowers & red garden decor help draw them into your garden also. Order some red spray paint on-line & have fun with up cycling some tired plant hangers & the such! Have fun with it. Once hummingbirds are actively feeding, since you have time, you can hand feed them too. During this busy feeding time, just take the feeder down and stand with it in your hand holding it up. Be still & quiet & they will come to you. This might take some tries but so worth it! Up close & personal is the ultimate way to see these tiny jewels! 
Female Ruby-Throated on my bee balm - all summer long!

        Determination of spirit and instinct make the monarch butterfly a marvel to our own backyards in nature. The 4 generations of monarchs in one year from fall migration to Mexico & the their journey north well, volumes have been written! Not habitat loss nor weather conditions will keep them from their journey. It is in our DNA to be strong & weather the conditions, adjust to our new habitats & come out the other side too! In the meantime, you can check out the link below to follow the migration north & learn some interesting facts about these amazing butterflies. Planting annual zinnias & lantana, perennial butterfly bush & coneflowers will keep them in your garden all summer long.  Stay safe - stay put & enjoy your gardens!


https://journeynorth.org/monarchs

Gardening-In-Place


        So this gardener, for sure, thought her first blog of the season would be about spring and being grateful to get back out there digging & dreaming...
        Well it has turned into a whole lot more gratitude than I could ever have imagined. You see I had been writing this blog in my head for months. Now, there is so much more going on in the world that the gratitude's  are piling up. You see, last July I broke my foot & haven't been digging in the garden until today! Seems appropriate, the first full day of Spring & 75 degree temps here east coast. Sure I was appreciating my garden all summer & fall; sometimes the to do list keeps us from looking, smelling & enjoying... I was grateful all summer for timely rains that helped nourish the plants and annuals that I carefully planted in May. Today was so much more than my first dig.
        We have all been effected by Covid-19 and my prayers go out every night to everyone around the world. If we all do our part, individually, then collectively we will see this through sooner than later I hope & pray. So while sheltering-in-place, getting outside, even in the smallest of spaces is so important for our well being, our psyches. So if you are fortunate enough to have a place to dig up weeds, dream of summer plantings and perhaps have some spring bloomers right now to enjoy - well please garden-in-place!

        How did I know last June when I was tidying up my forget-me-knots that it would be a good idea to shake those seeded plants ALL OVER my front bed? Serendipity. Now I couldn't be more excited to see, instead of the usual 20 plants or so, to have triple that! Those flowers will be setting soon & will be elevating my mood with those delicate blue flowers for sure! (and every delivery person's too!) They are right alongside my hellebores which are happily emerging & blooming now like they love to do. The tete-a-tete dafs, hyacinths & crocuses are all in full bloom. Thanks to a warmer than usual winter here Zone 7, I can see that my lupines (planted from seeds from a like-minded gardening bestie) are so robust with their leaves that I may actually get blooms this year! These little things make me happy, keep me going, give me hope.
        So yes, I am grateful for this first warm day of spring & for finally being able to walk around my beds. Today, from my heart,  I am grateful for the health of those I love & the opportunity to garden-in-place! Happy Spring & keep healthy & safe gardening friends!

Container Gardening for Everyone

   Gardener's love this time of year & even the first timers want to dig in and plant something beautiful for the summer. Container gardens are the perfect way to brighten up any space. I have lots of space to plant, but it's my containers that give me the most satisfaction (when successful)! So this blog is a reboot of past blogs with updated links & up to date tips. So this is a much longer blog but want to cover most of the bases. Happy planting!
    To begin your beautiful adventure into successful container gardening, choosing the right size container (with drainage holes!) is extremely important. Pick a large enough container for the sun exposure you receive. A very large container in full sun will dry out less quickly than a smaller size. If you are committed to a container garden, then you must be committed to watering every (or almost every) day. The more you allow your containers to completely dry out, the less successful you will be. Potting mixes are abundant at garden centers now. I choose types with fertilizer & also continue to feed throughout the summer. For my very sunny locations I use the 'blue' bag moisture control mixes. There are many organic choices too. There are no wrong choices here. Just make sure it reads container mix and not bedding mix; the bags tend to look alike.
      When choosing your container plants always consider the sun exposure you have first of all & then plan your choices. Most of all, have fun with it! To get started you can check out a site like https://www.provenwinners.com/learn/container-garden-design-color for ideas & inspiration.
   Containers of the large size have three basic components: the thriller, filler & spiller. The thriller is your centerpiece plant. The filler plants are your lower growers that surround the thriller. The spiller plants will spill & drape over the sides of your container giving a soft look. So think of these elements when choosing your plants. Your thriller can also be a garden ornament that is taller like a small triangular trellis. Most of all have fun & use your imagination! In the following list I will put an F (filler), T (thriller) or S (spiller) after each variety
    To help save you money & add to your success here are some of my own plant buying experiences:
~ For sun & part sun the plants that are traditional but DO NOT do well in containers generally are: ageratum, dahlia, geranium, marigolds, gerbera daisy, snapdragon (hates container heat), osteopermum (only blooms in cool temps), verbena, rosebud impatiens.
 ~ Here are some excellent sun/part sun choices: Angelonia T, begonia ‘dragon wing’ variety T&F (available in pink & red, green leaf; one plant grows so large it’s all you need), Big leaf begonias F are new to the scene & have larger leaves & flowers; these are my recent favorite for shade or sun & the do well planted in the ground as well. Euphorbia ‘diamond frost’ F, calibrachoa S, canna T, mandevilla F & S, papyrus T, new guinea impatiens T & F (requires LOTS of water), Marguerite daisy T & F, heliotrope F, salvia F, coleus F, bacopa S, zinnia T & F (pinch these for perfection!). New compact petunia varieties F like Cha-Ching Cherry & petunia wave S varieties are wonderful too. Also, tree standards like lantana F & S, hibiscus T, citrus T oleander T & magnolia T are lovely. One plant in an appropriate sized pot makes a statement.
~ For shade remember to NOT USE the regular bedding impatiens. The downy mildew fungus is not going anywhere & can be costly. Instead try torenia F & S, coleus F, dragon wing begonias T & F (personal favorite), wax begonias F, fuschia S & new guinea impatiens T & F. Perennials like hosta F, dicentra F, lamium S & ivy S are wonderful too.
     So as we are joyfully putting are lovely garden planters together for spring, and shortly for summer, we need to remember the ‘art of watering’ them. When we water for the first time, we need to water thoroughly to remove any air pockets that may be left. Subsequent watering will depend on need this time of year. When it begins to get hot, we need to water every day & sometimes twice. If your planters are left to completely dry out over & over again, the water will begin to do a ‘run-off’. It will appear to soak in but what often happens is the hard shell that has formed forces the water to the sides, down the sides of the container & out the drainage holes. A tell-tale sign of this is immediate water drainage, where you might say I guess it doesn’t need any water. (I find this happens more towards August when it gets hotter & I get a tiny bit lazier). To help your smaller planters, you can submerge them completely in water until the soil completely soaks through. Your larger containers will need some work around the plant bases to loosen as much as you can of the older soil (good time to add some slow release fertilizer) & remember just adding additional soil still masks the hard shell underneath.
      Now for the ever important lesson on dechlorination. My tap water contains levels of chlorine for healthy drinking purposes. (If you have well water no need to dechlorinate.) That same chlorine can damage your plants & kill the healthy organisms in your soil. When talking about containers, we are dealing with a finite amount of soil that needs to stay healthy so your plants thrive. (Your garden beds can heal themselves, but it’s always a good idea to water the soil, not the leaves with your hose water. A good reason to have soaker hoses that lay close to the soil.)
    I dechlorinate in three inexpensive ways. The first is to fill your watering cans so they sit for at least 24 hours before you water your containers. This will allow the chlorine to evaporate. The larger the mouth of the can, the quicker the evaporation. The added benefit to this is it will also get the water to air temperature which is best for your planters. So the routine being, water then fill before you go in for the day/night, they will be ready to go the next day. Having many watering cans is helpful (many can be found at garage sales – cheap!) My second tip is to use crystals that are used for fish tank water to dechlorinate immediately. These can be found in any pet store. My $10.00 jar treats 25,000 gallons! (I use PURA Chlorlock, very simple & effective). What you do is mix a little concentrated mixture according to directions. I keep in a small container & add two dropperfuls to each watering can. Having this option is beneficial when you have a plethora of planters as I do! The third option is to have rain barrel installed. This implies you have a home & that we don't have any kind of drought this summer! I have recently purchased 2 barrels to alleviate run-off & I will report back on this soon. I am very excited about this.
    All this may seem like added work, but it really is easy & the investment in your plants is nurtured in a big way! You will notice a difference, but remember to keep feeding your containers all summer & fall with a slow release fertilizer. The constant watering does wash away some nutrients. Enjoy the link below that explains it all! Good luck!
http://www.gardenguides.com/80170-dechlorinate-water-garden-plants.html

Crocus - There's a Flower (finally) Blooming!


By definition: Crocus ~ a small, spring flowering plant of the iris family, which grows from a corm and bears bright yellow, purple, or white flowers.

   This small, bright blooming flower is so much more than that to gardener's like myself who experience & celebrate the four seasons! Last week my daughter came home & said there's a flower blooming! I had already snapped the below pic with its silky petals the day before. The irony is that in a few months there will be thousands of beautiful blooms gracing my yard & nothing will be said. But this first one sent my heartbeat going & got a excited thumbs up from my millennial! I don't think it is by accident that the blooms are trumpet shaped as if to play spring has sprung!!

   You need to mark your calendars now, so when the corms become available in the fall you will make sure you have them to plant. Now I recommend planting by a front door or any bed where you will see them right away! The blooms do not last long so a high traffic area is a nice place to start. If you are thinking about redoing a lawn area in the fall, then buying enough to naturalize in the lawn would be beautiful. We all love those woodland areas loaded with pale purple blooms when we are driving around this time of year. So make sure you plant at least a few so you can experience that heart-pounding reaction or hear that simple, "there's a flower blooming!"

Gardening With Your Five Senses

   Happy New Year to you all!! Now as the holidays pass & the temperature continues to drop, the garden loving souls we are will look wistfully towards Spring. We know not to rush dormancy so our bulbs will bloom strong come April & May but we can't wait none the less. So what we do is plan: with our eyes closed when we drift off to sleep, with each and every garden catalogue that comes our way & as we gaze out our kitchen windows. So now I ask you to take the full on approach to your plan and prepare with your five senses!
    So sight is an easy one, or is it? Pay closer attention to how one color or texture plays off its bedmate. Remember how softer colors & finer foliage disappear if you plant them in a bed far from your viewing areas. Perhaps try bolder colors like the Pantone 2019 Color of the Year ~ Living Coral. My heuchera 'coral bells' fit this bill & the hummingbirds love it! Larger petal plants like petunia, coneflower, hibiscus, mandevilla & larger leaf foliage plants like heuchera & hosta will do the trick.
     When reevaluating the smells of your garden, remember proximity to where you sit, read, relax & dine all come into play. Fragrant annuals like heliotrope, gardenia & sweet peas can play an important part in the right place. Perennials like hyacinth & roses are wonderful & a variety of herbs are must haves for gathering and pinching for some quick fragrance.
     In keeping with your herbs, taste is why we garden vegetables & herbs in the first place! Even if you don't have room for a large garden that is fortified against rabbits, ground hogs, deer & such, many varieties are cultivated just for planters and smaller beds, especially the tomato. If you plant nothing else to fulfill your sense of taste, let it be a basil plant & a tomato plant or two!
     When you are a gardener touch is how a season begins. We dig in the soil, loosen root balls, tamp lightly or firmly and enjoy every second with or without gloves!! Beyond that is where you should also be thinking; texture is where it's at. From various euphorbias to my favorite amsonia, 'blue star', being able to run your fingers through foliage as you meander along is a treat like no other. I plant my lavender close to a walking route as I did my amsonia years ago. Rosemary & lemon balm or chocolate mint are also favorites of mine to rub between the fingers & smell!
     Last but not least is sound. I think if you plant for sound, plantings that the birds will enjoy, you can have that for four seasons!! Seed/berry producing perennials such as echinacea & rudebeckia, beautyberry & winterberry shrubs are wonderful choices. Nectar producing plants for our hummingbirds like bee balm, coral bells, honeysuckle & hyacinth bean vine are fragrant too! Our birds make the best sounds all year round! It is also easier than ever to put some moving water near your sitting areas. Small bubbling water features can be simple & inexpensive. See link below:


   Enjoy every minute of planning with your five senses!!

Autumn Joys & Cleanup!


   So October is almost upon us & I think it’s the most colorful month of the year for me. I am always sad to see summer go & alas my annuals will inevitably get frostbit here east coast zone 7a. I especially hate to see my hummingbirds go. I purchased a new camera this summer & have reenergized my love of photography especially flowers, butterflies & hummingbirds! (I hope you enjoy these photos in this blog) But there is so much to enjoy these next months the least of which are pumpkins, peppers from the garden, apple cider & mums!
   The Chrysanthemum, the most popular plant of the daisy family & is the quintessential plant of the fall garden. But will this mum come back next year? Well the bad news is ‘no’ but the good news is the low cost of these plants shouldn’t deter the gardener one bit. Who isn’t drawn to decorating with corn stalks, hay bales, pumpkins, gourds & mums! The reason these won’t survive is that if planted in the ground, they will not have enough time to establish a root system strong enough for them to survive the winter. (We also leave them in their containers for decorating purposes – so not a chance there). To complicate things more, there are two kinds of mums: Hardy (Garden) & florist mums. Florist mums are produced from cuttings mainly & will never develop a stolen that would help produce those necessary roots. The hardy mums when planted in the spring, however, do stand a chance at coming back for years to come. These contain the stolen for developing roots. These need at least 6 hours of sun a day, need a well-drained soil, water them well & provide plenty of mulch for over-wintering. They need to be pinched in spring/summer to encourage that round shape & not the leggy look. They may produce blooms in spring but can be pinched off until summer to produce a fall-fabulous set of blooms. Use beautiful grasses as a backdrop for your hardy mums. The sky is the limit when it comes to color. My suggestion is to buy what you are blown away by & not worry about next year!
  We don't want to forget the annuals we still have going either. That includes for me autumn joy sedum, obedient plant,  black-eyed susan, phlox paniculata & hyacinth bean vine to name a few. My beautyberry bush's berries are turning purple & I may get to enjoy the wonderful color before the birds gobble them up! Now don't forget the fall cleanup
~ Outside cleanup is underway with leaves galore! Instead of bagging or using the curbside pickup, think about using as many as possible as mulch in your beds & mowed into your lawn .
~ Leave seed headed perennials alone in your garden to feed the birds this winter. (Goldfinches do not migrate so the coneflower seeds are a treat for them.) The exceptions being any that showed signs of powdery mildew or other diseases at the end of summer. Dispose of these in the trash, not even with the garden waste.
     Most of all enjoy the time outdoors whether in your garden or beer garden, whether pumpkin picking or pie eating, whether leaf raking or leaf peeping!!

New Beauty Product Reviews Summer 2018!


   Before the summer is over (why does this fab time of year go so quickly?...) I wanted to update you on some new products that are fabulous and worth your small investment. Since all but one can be found at you favorite drugstore, it's a win, win to give some a try!

~ St. Ives Cleansing Stick - I have been using the cactus water & hibiscus stick (the blue one) which is moisturizing & smells delicious. You wet your face and rub a little on your cheeks & lather up. Great on all makeup & perfect for packing - no leaking!!! I bet the TSA wouldn't count it as a liquid for air travel. $7.00. Rating A+.

~ St. Ives Exfoliate & Nourish Coconut Oil Scrub - This also smells yummy & is so moisturizing with the oil base. Very gentle & a little goes a long way. Better than all scrubs that I've tried. $7.00. Rating A.

~ John Frieda Frizz Ease 6 Effects Serum Original - My hair took a frizzy turn for the worse this summer. My OGX Moroccan oil serum just wasn't enough (although I still love). This serum's blend of ingredients never weighs my hair down even if use more (and I have thin, fine hair!). I like the protection I get from my flat iron which I've come to use most days now. I read reviews before I purchased and I agree Rating A+ $9.98.

~ Maybelline's The Burgundy Bar Eye Shadow Palette - My other favorite palette is The Blushed Nudes & I knew I would like this one. The 'pinker' more 'burgundy' colors are actually more neutral than I thought so it has been fun to use & just the right shimmer. Will be perfect for Fall (Uggh) $9.98. Rating A.

~ TRESemme Compressed Micro Mist Hairspray - I bought Smooth level 2 hold. I hate hairspray but with my hair issues this summer I needed some frizz prevention in the form of a hairspray. It is the finest spray that I have ever tried & not sticky. $4.92. Rating B+.

~ Physicians Formula Rose All Day Oil Free Serum - I love serums & this has a fab smell & a shimmer to it. I like to mix a drop into my foundation. Can be used over foundation on cheeks for a glow. $12.99. Rating B+.

~ St. Tropez Self Tan Purity Facial Mist - I love the sun but I use tons of 50+ sunscreen. Eventually my face loses any color pretty quickly. This is the finest, best smelling mist.  It is very gradual in the tanning department which is perfect for me. A bit of a splurge ($30.00 ULTA) so I rate it a B but should last a long time!




Gardener's Block? or Gardener's Bliss?

   So I do realize I haven't posted a blog in awhile. Writer's block perhaps? I do have ideas for some healthy, fresh foods for this time of year but I wanted to do at least one more gardening blog. We are in the throes of the gardener's delight time of year after all!! So do I seriously have a writer's block? Then it dawned on me that perhaps I have a gardener's block!?! What is that you say. Well, I have been simplifying my annual plantings, expanding my long-lived perennial base over these past few years. Is it possible things are running so smoothly out there; there's plenty of rain & cooler than usual temperatures so far (for the east coast at least) that there's not much to write about? No Way!!!

Dragon Wing Begonia - My Old Fav!!
New favorite Begonia 'evi' - Walmart again!


Finally a good year for my everblooming hydrangea!!

    Yes, my gardening strategy has paid off but I know I have plenty of work to do... if I choose... See that's the thing, right now all looks fabulous! I can just sit & enjoy (we all aim for that result after all - with a cocktail in hand - see recipe link below) So maybe what I am experiencing is gardener's'bliss', not gardener's 'block'. I mean I really haven't had to begin dead heading just yet. As usual, I freshened up a stake or two with spray paint. I weeded (past tense) but the mulch is doing its thing for now! Really this is bliss; the kind you dream about when you are thumbing through those garden books in January. I will truly enjoy today with the low humidity & dappled sunshine. I will enjoy today because tomorrow I work actually. I will enjoy today because the present is a gift truly after all. So no tips or advice this time around, gardener's!! Simply Enjoy.





Gardeners ~ Walk Before You Run!


   The weather is warming! Your garden is greening up! Perennials are popping! Please don't run out & be a (weekend) warrior. We need to walk first; ease into what we have not been doing all winter long! We really do not have to accomplish readying your garden in a day or even a week. 
We know as gardeners it takes some time & the worst thing you can do is overdue on those first warm days. It really does help to get out & walk & stretch regularly, especially those hip flexors. Yoga sessions are wonderful to work out those muscles. Check out this link for yoga stretches to help you after a day of gardening:


   Over the years if I have learned anything it is to pace myself. I really do enjoy readying the garden but when it begins to feel like too much on my body I stop & return another day. The same goes for planting my beds & planters. It is soooo much fun because the rewards are instant, but when I start feeling hungry, thirsty, tired or achy I stop. It will be much more enjoyable tomorrow! A few tips that I live by ~ I always wear long sleeves & long pants, this time of year especially. I don't want scratches (or ticks!!) when I am getting in there cleaning out my beds. I like to get out early so it is not hot and the pollinators are not out. I always sit on a blanket to weed or plant when I can and kneel on a pad only when I have to. Yoga helps to keep me in shape for that sitting to a standing position! I try to not pull weeds because I am prone to tennis elbow; I get under the weeds with a garden tool whenever possible.

See more tips from Martha Stuart in this link below! Happy Gardening!


Tend to the old, plant the new, but there's still plenty for you to do - NOW

    After visiting The Philadelphia Flower Show this year, I can't help but get excited for the new planting year! Proven Winners had a display of some of their new offerings for 2018 (see below link). There are always some fabulous new offerings but we need to prep first. Since we are all excited to get out there & dig in the dirt anyway, it isn't a chore but we should have a prep plan. Most of all enjoy the welcome time outside! Follow these tips from Proven Winners:
1. Time for a spring inspection. On one of the first warm days of spring, put on your inspector’s hat and head out to the garden with a notepad. It’s time to see what happened in the garden while you were indoors all winter. Take note of:
  • Cold, ice or snow damage on plants
  • Beds that will need to be cleaned out
  • Hardscaping elements—walls, fences, benches, sheds, trellises—that have shifted, bowed or rotted
  • Evidence of new animal burrows from skunks, chipmunks, moles and voles, groundhogs or rabbits. Also, note any deer or rodent damage on woody plants.
2. Address hardscaping issues first. In early spring before the ground is ready to be worked, focus your energy on hardscaping. This is the time to repair damaged retaining walls, level out your stepping stones, clean out your gutters, and fix fences, benches, decks, sheds, trellises, window boxes and raised beds. These tasks are easier to accomplish while your plants are still resting safely dormant.
Early spring is also a good time to plan for and build new raised gardens, widen existing ones, and tidy up your beds’ edging. When temperatures allow, add a fresh coat of paint, stain or sealant to any hardscaping elements made of wood.
3. Do a thorough spring cleanup. Ideally just before your spring bulbs start to pop up, clean the plant debris out of your garden beds. This includes fallen branches, matted down leaves, last year’s perennial foliage, ornamental grasses and perennial hibiscus, and any annuals you didn’t remove last fall. Maintaining good hygiene in your garden beds will help to keep pests and diseases at bay.
Now is also a good time to clean out debris from your pond or water feature. While you’re at it, scrub and sterilize your bird bath and containers before setting them back out into the garden. A 1 part bleach/5 parts water solution should take care of any lingering diseases or insect eggs in your containers.    
4. Test your garden soil. Experts recommend testing your garden soil every 3-5 years to see what nutrients or organic materials it needs and which it has too much of. You might learn, for example, that your soil is very high in phosphorous, so you would avoid adding fertilizers that contain a lot of it. Or you might find out your soil is naturally alkaline, and need to add aluminum sulfate around your evergreens and acid-loving shrubs like hydrangeas. Detailed instructions on how to collect and submit your soil sample is available on your state’s Extension Service website.    
5. Feed your soil. Once you know what your garden soil needs based on your test results, talk with someone at your local garden center about which specific products to use, always following package instructions for best results.
A good general practice is to topdress the soil with an inch or two of compost, humus and/or manure in early spring just before or as your bulbs are starting to emerge. That’s also a good time to sprinkle an organic slow release plant food like Espoma’s Plant-tone or Rose-tone around your perennials and shrubs. Earthworms and other garden creatures will do the job of working these organic materials down into the soil for you.
6. Get out a sharp pair of pruners. Spring is a good time to prune some kinds of woody shrubs and trees. We’ve created a detailed guide for you to follow here: Pruning Demystified. Here are a few highlights:
  • Start by pruning out anything that has been broken or damaged by winter ice, snow and cold. Remove dead wood, too. 
  • Follow the general rule that flowering shrubs which bloom on new wood (this year’s growth) can be trimmed in spring. This includes summer flowering shrubs like butterfly bushsmooth hydrangea (H. arborescens)panicle hydrangea (H. paniculata)potentillarose of Sharon, and roses. Their flower buds will be set on the new flush of growth that appears after you prune it.
  • Spring is also a good time to shear back evergreens like boxwood and arborvitae once their initial flush of new growth has finished emerging.
  • DO NOT prune early flowering shrubs and those that bloom on old wood (last year’s stems) like azaleaforsythialilacquinceninebark and weigela in spring. If you do, you’ll risk cutting off this year’s flower buds. You might not be able to see them, but they are there, so resist the urge to prune.    
7. Divide perennials and transplant shrubs. In early spring when they are just beginning to pop up, divide and transplant any perennials that have outgrown their space or grown large enough to split, if desired. In most cases, it’s best to divide and move perennials in the opposite season of when they bloom. That means moving summer and fall blooming perennials in spring, and spring blooming perennials in fall. This avoids disrupting their bloom cycle.
Evergreen shrubs can be moved in early spring before their new growth appears or in early fall to give them enough time to re-establish their roots before winter. Deciduous shrubs can be moved almost anytime they are not in bloom and the weather is mild, but generally spring and fall are the preferred seasons for transplanting. If you move them while they are dormant, there will be less stress on the plants and they will be more likely to spring back into action quickly.     
8. Put out any necessary supports like trellises and stakes. If you’ve brought a trellis into the garage or shed for winter, early spring is a good time to bring it back out into the garden. Make sure it’s sturdy and apply a fresh coat of paint if needed before using it again. If you grow peonies, delphiniums, or any other perennials that require support, set them out now or get them ready to go. Trying to wrangle tender peony stems into a peony ring is tough work once their leaves have unfurled.
9. Plant your spring containers and borders. Though most annual flowers need the soil to warm up a bit before planting, some cool weather loving plants like pansiesnemesia, and osteospermum daisies won’t mind if you plant them in the garden early. Fill your spring containers with sweet alyssumlobelia and Supertunia petunias, too. You’ll find six solutions for cool weather plantings in this article. For most other annuals, it’s a good idea to wait until your area’s last frost date to plant. Your local Extension Service website lists that date on their website.  
10. Be ready to take cover if freezing temperatures are in the forecast. If you garden in an area where late spring frosts and freezes are a possibility, be prepared to cover up plants that have tender emerging buds or foliage if freezing temps are in the forecast. If the buds haven’t begun to open yet, there’s no need to cover them. Old sheets and towels that have been relegated to the rag pile are a good option, and professional row cover is available for purchase, too. DO NOT cover tender plants with plastic sheeting or tarps. The effect of the plastic touching the newly emerging buds and foliage will magnify the cold’s effect, rather than mitigate it.