Permission to Hibernate

    Yes, a few more weeks until calendar spring. We all know, especially east coast, that calendar spring is a crock. Especially after this year, I am ready to hibernate until it is really spring. Consistent 70 degree temps, completely melted snow…

    I truly believe that I was meant to be a hibernating animal. I mean, I cannot take another second of snow, cold temps, head colds, dry air, etc. I mean most bears hibernate & no one would dare call them lazy or a slacker (at least not to their face)! Have you ever seen footage of them fishing salmon?! Serious over-achievers. I am hereby giving you permission to ‘hibernate’; resting & sleeping & recharging those human batteries as needed until real spring begins. Why do we feel that if we feel lazy, feel like napping, feel like staying under the covers most of the weekend is a bad thing? We deserve down time too even though we can’t physiologically hibernate. We can allow ourselves all the time we need to rest & relax. Sure, there are days we need to work, tasks that need to be completed. I suggest we break those tasks into singular to-do’s & break them down even further. I may need to empty the dishwasher but if I do a few glasses at a time, it will get done eventually… then I can get right back to my warm bed sooner.

Lent Isn't Just For Catholics

   Growing up Catholic, I know a little something about the season of Lent, the time leading up to Easter (and spring)!! What my friends and I all remember most is the ‘giving something up’ for Lent. We still participate health permitting. Yes, it usually is a food of some sort. Growing up I remember my Mom ‘making’ my sister & I ‘give’ up watching the cult classic Dark Shadows after school for the 6 week duration. (She said it would be tough & that would be good for us. I honestly think she just hated a show about vampires!) Well, the idea is it should be something tough. In recent years, I have given up chocolate ~ the hardest by far at the time. One year was alcohol, equally as tough I suppose. A handful of years ago I stopped eating after 7pm at night. Extremely difficult thing to do at first, but then a Lenten miracle happened; I actually felt better for the sacrifice in the morning ~ no growling-I-got-to-eat-NOW tummy. To this day I try to abide by the same rule. My brother-in-law gives up beer every year & a wonderful thing happens for him, his body takes on a new & improved shape. Now, I am not saying total deprivation is the way to go, quite the contrary. I believe in moderation all the way. What I am saying is there is something to be learned from sacrifice of any kind. You prove to yourself that you are tougher than you think. You learn to appreciate what you are sacrificing; a bit of forced gratitude along life’s path is not a bad thing. I think our parents forced gratitude on us a whole lot. “You better eat those peas; there are starving children out there that don’t get peas.” Yes, we go along in our adult life not always grateful, not always present in the moment. So the idea of Lenten sacrifice can be good for all. We can learn to be grateful and when spring comes along with the end of Lent, a grateful Halleluiah chorus isn’t such a bad thing either.