Marypause50 ~10 years later still a blog about gardens, simplicity, friendships, gratitude, health,

Gardening With Your Five Senses

   Happy New Year to you all!! Now as the holidays pass & the temperature continues to drop, the garden loving souls we are will look wistfully towards Spring. We know not to rush dormancy so our bulbs will bloom strong come April & May but we can't wait none the less. So what we do is plan: with our eyes closed when we drift off to sleep, with each and every garden catalogue that comes our way & as we gaze out our kitchen windows. So now I ask you to take the full on approach to your plan and prepare with your five senses!
    So sight is an easy one, or is it? Pay closer attention to how one color or texture plays off its bedmate. Remember how softer colors & finer foliage disappear if you plant them in a bed far from your viewing areas. Perhaps try bolder colors like the Pantone 2019 Color of the Year ~ Living Coral. My heuchera 'coral bells' fit this bill & the hummingbirds love it! Larger petal plants like petunia, coneflower, hibiscus, mandevilla & larger leaf foliage plants like heuchera & hosta will do the trick.
     When reevaluating the smells of your garden, remember proximity to where you sit, read, relax & dine all come into play. Fragrant annuals like heliotrope, gardenia & sweet peas can play an important part in the right place. Perennials like hyacinth & roses are wonderful & a variety of herbs are must haves for gathering and pinching for some quick fragrance.
     In keeping with your herbs, taste is why we garden vegetables & herbs in the first place! Even if you don't have room for a large garden that is fortified against rabbits, ground hogs, deer & such, many varieties are cultivated just for planters and smaller beds, especially the tomato. If you plant nothing else to fulfill your sense of taste, let it be a basil plant & a tomato plant or two!
     When you are a gardener touch is how a season begins. We dig in the soil, loosen root balls, tamp lightly or firmly and enjoy every second with or without gloves!! Beyond that is where you should also be thinking; texture is where it's at. From various euphorbias to my favorite amsonia, 'blue star', being able to run your fingers through foliage as you meander along is a treat like no other. I plant my lavender close to a walking route as I did my amsonia years ago. Rosemary & lemon balm or chocolate mint are also favorites of mine to rub between the fingers & smell!
     Last but not least is sound. I think if you plant for sound, plantings that the birds will enjoy, you can have that for four seasons!! Seed/berry producing perennials such as echinacea & rudebeckia, beautyberry & winterberry shrubs are wonderful choices. Nectar producing plants for our hummingbirds like bee balm, coral bells, honeysuckle & hyacinth bean vine are fragrant too! Our birds make the best sounds all year round! It is also easier than ever to put some moving water near your sitting areas. Small bubbling water features can be simple & inexpensive. See link below:


   Enjoy every minute of planning with your five senses!!

Autumn Joys & Cleanup!


   So October is almost upon us & I think it’s the most colorful month of the year for me. I am always sad to see summer go & alas my annuals will inevitably get frostbit here east coast zone 7a. I especially hate to see my hummingbirds go. I purchased a new camera this summer & have reenergized my love of photography especially flowers, butterflies & hummingbirds! (I hope you enjoy these photos in this blog) But there is so much to enjoy these next months the least of which are pumpkins, peppers from the garden, apple cider & mums!
   The Chrysanthemum, the most popular plant of the daisy family & is the quintessential plant of the fall garden. But will this mum come back next year? Well the bad news is ‘no’ but the good news is the low cost of these plants shouldn’t deter the gardener one bit. Who isn’t drawn to decorating with corn stalks, hay bales, pumpkins, gourds & mums! The reason these won’t survive is that if planted in the ground, they will not have enough time to establish a root system strong enough for them to survive the winter. (We also leave them in their containers for decorating purposes – so not a chance there). To complicate things more, there are two kinds of mums: Hardy (Garden) & florist mums. Florist mums are produced from cuttings mainly & will never develop a stolen that would help produce those necessary roots. The hardy mums when planted in the spring, however, do stand a chance at coming back for years to come. These contain the stolen for developing roots. These need at least 6 hours of sun a day, need a well-drained soil, water them well & provide plenty of mulch for over-wintering. They need to be pinched in spring/summer to encourage that round shape & not the leggy look. They may produce blooms in spring but can be pinched off until summer to produce a fall-fabulous set of blooms. Use beautiful grasses as a backdrop for your hardy mums. The sky is the limit when it comes to color. My suggestion is to buy what you are blown away by & not worry about next year!
  We don't want to forget the annuals we still have going either. That includes for me autumn joy sedum, obedient plant,  black-eyed susan, phlox paniculata & hyacinth bean vine to name a few. My beautyberry bush's berries are turning purple & I may get to enjoy the wonderful color before the birds gobble them up! Now don't forget the fall cleanup
~ Outside cleanup is underway with leaves galore! Instead of bagging or using the curbside pickup, think about using as many as possible as mulch in your beds & mowed into your lawn .
~ Leave seed headed perennials alone in your garden to feed the birds this winter. (Goldfinches do not migrate so the coneflower seeds are a treat for them.) The exceptions being any that showed signs of powdery mildew or other diseases at the end of summer. Dispose of these in the trash, not even with the garden waste.
     Most of all enjoy the time outdoors whether in your garden or beer garden, whether pumpkin picking or pie eating, whether leaf raking or leaf peeping!!

New Beauty Product Reviews Summer 2018!


   Before the summer is over (why does this fab time of year go so quickly?...) I wanted to update you on some new products that are fabulous and worth your small investment. Since all but one can be found at you favorite drugstore, it's a win, win to give some a try!

~ St. Ives Cleansing Stick - I have been using the cactus water & hibiscus stick (the blue one) which is moisturizing & smells delicious. You wet your face and rub a little on your cheeks & lather up. Great on all makeup & perfect for packing - no leaking!!! I bet the TSA wouldn't count it as a liquid for air travel. $7.00. Rating A+.

~ St. Ives Exfoliate & Nourish Coconut Oil Scrub - This also smells yummy & is so moisturizing with the oil base. Very gentle & a little goes a long way. Better than all scrubs that I've tried. $7.00. Rating A.

~ John Frieda Frizz Ease 6 Effects Serum Original - My hair took a frizzy turn for the worse this summer. My OGX Moroccan oil serum just wasn't enough (although I still love). This serum's blend of ingredients never weighs my hair down even if use more (and I have thin, fine hair!). I like the protection I get from my flat iron which I've come to use most days now. I read reviews before I purchased and I agree Rating A+ $9.98.

~ Maybelline's The Burgundy Bar Eye Shadow Palette - My other favorite palette is The Blushed Nudes & I knew I would like this one. The 'pinker' more 'burgundy' colors are actually more neutral than I thought so it has been fun to use & just the right shimmer. Will be perfect for Fall (Uggh) $9.98. Rating A.

~ TRESemme Compressed Micro Mist Hairspray - I bought Smooth level 2 hold. I hate hairspray but with my hair issues this summer I needed some frizz prevention in the form of a hairspray. It is the finest spray that I have ever tried & not sticky. $4.92. Rating B+.

~ Physicians Formula Rose All Day Oil Free Serum - I love serums & this has a fab smell & a shimmer to it. I like to mix a drop into my foundation. Can be used over foundation on cheeks for a glow. $12.99. Rating B+.

~ St. Tropez Self Tan Purity Facial Mist - I love the sun but I use tons of 50+ sunscreen. Eventually my face loses any color pretty quickly. This is the finest, best smelling mist.  It is very gradual in the tanning department which is perfect for me. A bit of a splurge ($30.00 ULTA) so I rate it a B but should last a long time!




Gardener's Block? or Gardener's Bliss?

   So I do realize I haven't posted a blog in awhile. Writer's block perhaps? I do have ideas for some healthy, fresh foods for this time of year but I wanted to do at least one more gardening blog. We are in the throes of the gardener's delight time of year after all!! So do I seriously have a writer's block? Then it dawned on me that perhaps I have a gardener's block!?! What is that you say. Well, I have been simplifying my annual plantings, expanding my long-lived perennial base over these past few years. Is it possible things are running so smoothly out there; there's plenty of rain & cooler than usual temperatures so far (for the east coast at least) that there's not much to write about? No Way!!!

Dragon Wing Begonia - My Old Fav!!
New favorite Begonia 'evi' - Walmart again!


Finally a good year for my everblooming hydrangea!!

    Yes, my gardening strategy has paid off but I know I have plenty of work to do... if I choose... See that's the thing, right now all looks fabulous! I can just sit & enjoy (we all aim for that result after all - with a cocktail in hand - see recipe link below) So maybe what I am experiencing is gardener's'bliss', not gardener's 'block'. I mean I really haven't had to begin dead heading just yet. As usual, I freshened up a stake or two with spray paint. I weeded (past tense) but the mulch is doing its thing for now! Really this is bliss; the kind you dream about when you are thumbing through those garden books in January. I will truly enjoy today with the low humidity & dappled sunshine. I will enjoy today because tomorrow I work actually. I will enjoy today because the present is a gift truly after all. So no tips or advice this time around, gardener's!! Simply Enjoy.





Gardeners ~ Walk Before You Run!


   The weather is warming! Your garden is greening up! Perennials are popping! Please don't run out & be a (weekend) warrior. We need to walk first; ease into what we have not been doing all winter long! We really do not have to accomplish readying your garden in a day or even a week. 
We know as gardeners it takes some time & the worst thing you can do is overdue on those first warm days. It really does help to get out & walk & stretch regularly, especially those hip flexors. Yoga sessions are wonderful to work out those muscles. Check out this link for yoga stretches to help you after a day of gardening:


   Over the years if I have learned anything it is to pace myself. I really do enjoy readying the garden but when it begins to feel like too much on my body I stop & return another day. The same goes for planting my beds & planters. It is soooo much fun because the rewards are instant, but when I start feeling hungry, thirsty, tired or achy I stop. It will be much more enjoyable tomorrow! A few tips that I live by ~ I always wear long sleeves & long pants, this time of year especially. I don't want scratches (or ticks!!) when I am getting in there cleaning out my beds. I like to get out early so it is not hot and the pollinators are not out. I always sit on a blanket to weed or plant when I can and kneel on a pad only when I have to. Yoga helps to keep me in shape for that sitting to a standing position! I try to not pull weeds because I am prone to tennis elbow; I get under the weeds with a garden tool whenever possible.

See more tips from Martha Stuart in this link below! Happy Gardening!


Tend to the old, plant the new, but there's still plenty for you to do - NOW

    After visiting The Philadelphia Flower Show this year, I can't help but get excited for the new planting year! Proven Winners had a display of some of their new offerings for 2018 (see below link). There are always some fabulous new offerings but we need to prep first. Since we are all excited to get out there & dig in the dirt anyway, it isn't a chore but we should have a prep plan. Most of all enjoy the welcome time outside! Follow these tips from Proven Winners:
1. Time for a spring inspection. On one of the first warm days of spring, put on your inspector’s hat and head out to the garden with a notepad. It’s time to see what happened in the garden while you were indoors all winter. Take note of:
  • Cold, ice or snow damage on plants
  • Beds that will need to be cleaned out
  • Hardscaping elements—walls, fences, benches, sheds, trellises—that have shifted, bowed or rotted
  • Evidence of new animal burrows from skunks, chipmunks, moles and voles, groundhogs or rabbits. Also, note any deer or rodent damage on woody plants.
2. Address hardscaping issues first. In early spring before the ground is ready to be worked, focus your energy on hardscaping. This is the time to repair damaged retaining walls, level out your stepping stones, clean out your gutters, and fix fences, benches, decks, sheds, trellises, window boxes and raised beds. These tasks are easier to accomplish while your plants are still resting safely dormant.
Early spring is also a good time to plan for and build new raised gardens, widen existing ones, and tidy up your beds’ edging. When temperatures allow, add a fresh coat of paint, stain or sealant to any hardscaping elements made of wood.
3. Do a thorough spring cleanup. Ideally just before your spring bulbs start to pop up, clean the plant debris out of your garden beds. This includes fallen branches, matted down leaves, last year’s perennial foliage, ornamental grasses and perennial hibiscus, and any annuals you didn’t remove last fall. Maintaining good hygiene in your garden beds will help to keep pests and diseases at bay.
Now is also a good time to clean out debris from your pond or water feature. While you’re at it, scrub and sterilize your bird bath and containers before setting them back out into the garden. A 1 part bleach/5 parts water solution should take care of any lingering diseases or insect eggs in your containers.    
4. Test your garden soil. Experts recommend testing your garden soil every 3-5 years to see what nutrients or organic materials it needs and which it has too much of. You might learn, for example, that your soil is very high in phosphorous, so you would avoid adding fertilizers that contain a lot of it. Or you might find out your soil is naturally alkaline, and need to add aluminum sulfate around your evergreens and acid-loving shrubs like hydrangeas. Detailed instructions on how to collect and submit your soil sample is available on your state’s Extension Service website.    
5. Feed your soil. Once you know what your garden soil needs based on your test results, talk with someone at your local garden center about which specific products to use, always following package instructions for best results.
A good general practice is to topdress the soil with an inch or two of compost, humus and/or manure in early spring just before or as your bulbs are starting to emerge. That’s also a good time to sprinkle an organic slow release plant food like Espoma’s Plant-tone or Rose-tone around your perennials and shrubs. Earthworms and other garden creatures will do the job of working these organic materials down into the soil for you.
6. Get out a sharp pair of pruners. Spring is a good time to prune some kinds of woody shrubs and trees. We’ve created a detailed guide for you to follow here: Pruning Demystified. Here are a few highlights:
  • Start by pruning out anything that has been broken or damaged by winter ice, snow and cold. Remove dead wood, too. 
  • Follow the general rule that flowering shrubs which bloom on new wood (this year’s growth) can be trimmed in spring. This includes summer flowering shrubs like butterfly bushsmooth hydrangea (H. arborescens)panicle hydrangea (H. paniculata)potentillarose of Sharon, and roses. Their flower buds will be set on the new flush of growth that appears after you prune it.
  • Spring is also a good time to shear back evergreens like boxwood and arborvitae once their initial flush of new growth has finished emerging.
  • DO NOT prune early flowering shrubs and those that bloom on old wood (last year’s stems) like azaleaforsythialilacquinceninebark and weigela in spring. If you do, you’ll risk cutting off this year’s flower buds. You might not be able to see them, but they are there, so resist the urge to prune.    
7. Divide perennials and transplant shrubs. In early spring when they are just beginning to pop up, divide and transplant any perennials that have outgrown their space or grown large enough to split, if desired. In most cases, it’s best to divide and move perennials in the opposite season of when they bloom. That means moving summer and fall blooming perennials in spring, and spring blooming perennials in fall. This avoids disrupting their bloom cycle.
Evergreen shrubs can be moved in early spring before their new growth appears or in early fall to give them enough time to re-establish their roots before winter. Deciduous shrubs can be moved almost anytime they are not in bloom and the weather is mild, but generally spring and fall are the preferred seasons for transplanting. If you move them while they are dormant, there will be less stress on the plants and they will be more likely to spring back into action quickly.     
8. Put out any necessary supports like trellises and stakes. If you’ve brought a trellis into the garage or shed for winter, early spring is a good time to bring it back out into the garden. Make sure it’s sturdy and apply a fresh coat of paint if needed before using it again. If you grow peonies, delphiniums, or any other perennials that require support, set them out now or get them ready to go. Trying to wrangle tender peony stems into a peony ring is tough work once their leaves have unfurled.
9. Plant your spring containers and borders. Though most annual flowers need the soil to warm up a bit before planting, some cool weather loving plants like pansiesnemesia, and osteospermum daisies won’t mind if you plant them in the garden early. Fill your spring containers with sweet alyssumlobelia and Supertunia petunias, too. You’ll find six solutions for cool weather plantings in this article. For most other annuals, it’s a good idea to wait until your area’s last frost date to plant. Your local Extension Service website lists that date on their website.  
10. Be ready to take cover if freezing temperatures are in the forecast. If you garden in an area where late spring frosts and freezes are a possibility, be prepared to cover up plants that have tender emerging buds or foliage if freezing temps are in the forecast. If the buds haven’t begun to open yet, there’s no need to cover them. Old sheets and towels that have been relegated to the rag pile are a good option, and professional row cover is available for purchase, too. DO NOT cover tender plants with plastic sheeting or tarps. The effect of the plastic touching the newly emerging buds and foliage will magnify the cold’s effect, rather than mitigate it. 

Simplify & Save ~ Look at your Stuff in a New Way!

   I went to a performance of Stomp on New Year's Eve with my girlfriends & it was very entertaining & loads of fun. We left the performance wanting to tap on this or drum on that. The troupe takes all kinds of objects & makes 'music' in their very cool way, incorporating some modern dance/tap & stomping. This got me thinking there is blog in this somewhere...
   It's the New Year & you know I am all about simplifying our lives. I've written numerous blogs & continue to work really hard with my own surroundings. Here's my suggestion: what if instead of buying more stuff, we look at what we already own while thinking outside the box. I mean if these performers could take long-handled brooms & make music all while sweeping up sawdust, I can certainly bring new life to my wardrobe & dishware!
   I am going to start with my tops because I have been thinking about purchasing a few new sweaters, warmer ones. I don't have many because of the flashes, oh my, and now we are posting super low temps here east coast. So today I am going to work on layering what I have in different ways & adding a scarf here & there. I'll try to remember that the pieces don't need to be matchy, matchy; they just need to go together. It's kind of exciting, shopping in my own closet. !  Try these layering tips from style guru & actress Lauren Conrad:
   In the kitchen it becomes hard to stuff another appliance or dish into the cabinets!  Remember your canning mason jars can be used as glasses (very cool & trendy) or candle holders. Your eclectic collection of vases put together randomly  make a great centerpiece base. Place settings are trending towards the eclectic. Mix & match!

    The moral here is before you purchase, shop your own closets, attic, basement, drawers or garage first. You are clever & imaginative!