Marypause50 ~10 years later still a blog about gardens, simplicity, friendships, gratitude, health,

What Do the Skinny Bitches in your Life Eat?

   I will be writing this blog about the eating habits of a curious and interesting creature ~ the Skinny Bitch (SB moving forward).  I am saying this with the utmost affection for the SB; (and yes, I happen to sort of be one). My friends affectionately 'hate' me at times ~ "Really...I need to stand next to her?" I love them & they love me. Many SB's have much to offer the general population in the way of desirable eating habits. I'm not saying we always eat healthy, but we do watch our portions & always take home leftovers.
   In one of my magazine reads the past few months, they were featuring a woman on a successful weight loss mission. One of the 'out in the field' observations was the way her friends ate in restaurants. She has a group of friends in an more ideal BMI (Body Mass Index) category. Also, a group of friends in a closer to obese BMI situation. She observed the eating habits of both groups & LIGHT BULB! Once she began to follow the choices of her healthy weight friends, she began to lose weight herself. AHA MOMENT. So simple... (in the same vein as follow a three year old around all day and mimic every move and you WILL lose weight & WILL be exhausted!)
    So that got me thinking about writing this blog. I am not a true SB but I am thin and I do practice portion control naturally - all my life. I am suggesting in the social situations to begin your observations. Seeing first hand will be your best teacher, because the proof is your friend & these good habits can be easily learned and adapted. And no, I do not consume diet beverages. I do not skip meals or snacks, I do not deprive myself of anything. I do not skip out on social events because of the food temptations. I do not eat out much. When I do, I have been known to order off the appetizer menu if there is something delicious. I don't exercise for hours a day, just yoga or walking a few times a week. I do take home leftovers if I am ordering an entree. I do like to cook simple fare from scratch at home. Am I textbook healthy eater 24/7? ~ absolutely not. Do I feel lessons could be learned from me if one observed my eating habits ~ yes. Think of your meals over a one week span of time. The majority of that time I am making dietary choices worth mimicking. That's all we can ask for from ourselves in the real (SB) world.
    So next time you are in a situation, just ask yourself, "what would my SB Bestie eat?"

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